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Rachel Lockett

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A guide to difficult conversations, building high-trust teams, and designing a life you love

Nov 23, 20251h 45m

Guest: Rachel Lockett - Executive Coach and former HR leader at Pinterest and Stripe. Rachel works with CEOs, founders, and tech leaders on emotional intelligence, resilience, and building high-trust teams. She is renowned for her impactful coaching and frameworks that enhance leadership and personal growth. Key Takeaways: Coaching vs. Advising: Leaders often default to advising, but coaching through active listening and powerful questions (using the GROW model) empowers teams to solve problems independently. Burnout Prevention: Spend 80% of your time in your strengths to maintain energy. Reflect on daily activities to identify what energizes or depletes you. Co-founder Relationships: Establish clear roles, commitments, and regular check-ins to maintain a healthy dynamic. Use frameworks like the Enneagram for self-awareness. Difficult Conversations: Aim for mutual understanding rather than convincing. Use the Nonviolent Communication framework: Observations, Feelings, Needs, and Requests. One-Page Plan: Simplify and align company vision, strategy, and goals on a single page to ensure clarity and focus across the organization. Topics Covered: Coaching vs. advising, burnout prevention, co-founder relationships, difficult conversations, one-page plan, active listening, powerful questions, Nonviolent Communication, self-awareness, team dynamics.

Notable Quotes

โ€œGreat leaders know that when you try to advise and have the answer all the time, you're not actually equipping your team to go solve the hard problems.โ€

Leadership

โ€œThe goal of any conflict is to create mutual understanding.โ€

Conflict Resolution

โ€œBuilding businesses is an inherently human endeavor.โ€

Business and Humanity